This NY Times article discusses the shortage in the context of elder care, not those of us with disabilities who are greatly affected. It points out how some are opting to use the gray market, hiring aides who do not work for agencies due to cost factors. It mentions how often no criminal background checks or proper training is provided to these workers.
Make no mistake about it - this is one of the most important issues facing the disabled community. Without adequate home care, many of us face institutionalization.
I am always reluctant to mix the issues of aging and disability in discussions because there is a tendency on the part of our social system to provide the same services to young people with disabilities as they do to elders, thus making it very difficult for those of us with disabilities to have the ability to participate in any meaningful work, whether it be paid or volunteer, have a social life or any kind of life.
I have experienced this in my own life and have continually struggled against being pigeonholed into the same services designed for an elderly person. For example, when I need meal assistance and someone suggests a service which requires me to be home every day at the same time to receive a meal, that literally puts me under a form of 'house arrest'. I may need the service, but because there is no program for a younger person with a disability, it doesn't work for me.
I have had home health care aides who will not provide me with times when they are coming, but the rule is I have to be home when they come. This also limits my mobility, income and lifestyle greatly. Because of the shortage and the extent of my disability, I sometimes have had to make this compromise. (My primary aide does not treat me this way but she is the exception in this area, not the rule.)
A shortage also results in less bargaining power with aides for consumers and increases abuse. If I want an aide to go to work with me, he or she may turn my hours down and take hours from someone else who requires less assistance. Aides have told me they will do "one thing" (pick from eating, being clean or getting dressed- forget opening mail or anything else)and then have sat down and watched my TV, telling me to "go ahead and work, it won't bother them". ** Some aides have demanded more and more money from consumers. I know of one aide who worked for a friend with MS. She would walk in, open my friend's wallet and take all the cash in it to "supplement" her pay.
So what about finding other kinds of help? Volunteers through social programs will come, but the programs are set up where you have to commit to the same time on the same day - every week since they are also set up for the elderly who are retired. If you're disabled , this means you have to do a workaround all of the time in order to participate in any of these programs, rather than being allowed to work out a schedule with the volunteer on a one to one basis - or give up this volunteer help, which can help supplement the shortage of aides situation.
This is a serious and growing problem for people with disabilities. We can invoke the ADA to increase our access to opportunities, but for those of us dependent on care and aides, this shortage can mean we have no way to get dressed, eat or showered - and will keep us in our homes or, worse yet, put us in institutions.
**Descriptions of these situations are to show the kinds of behavior I've seen and are not meant to imply that either I, or anyone else, should put up with it or settle for this kind of treatment because there is a shortage.
6 comments:
i'm glad you tellthe truth here. aides call the shots with us. there arent enough of them so they pick who they want to work with and you wait and wait for help. i wear the same clothes to bed because no one will help me change and they say where you going and who's going to see you? and they won't fix me things to eat or just don't show up at all. its depressing and a BIG problem. i'm in a whelchair too from MS. glad you speak up here.
Bravo! Someone with guts who tells the truth. This is a crisis for disabled people and no one talks about it. They sweep it under the table disabled people are afraid to talk about it because they depend on the system. It's a disgrace.
I would love to again work as an aide to help someone with disabilities. The only option open to me to date has been an agency that only want to pay $7/hour. This is not enough.
I am sure there are many people around who would love to do this important work, if they could only find people to help. At least, that is the problem in my case. I am available for senior assistance, job coaching, respite care...have been looking for work for 3 years. Go figure.
Advertise on craigslist.com. You might find someone (me) looking there. :)
anonymous - you're right. the agencies keep most of the money - and pay the aide (at least around here) $8 an hour. it appears its even lower where you are. you're one of those folks who would be considered on the "gray list" since you work independently. the difficulty is that for pw is that most of us rely on funding - and that requires us to hire someone through an agency. also (and I'm not suggesting this applies to you individually - this is in general) gray listers are not bonded, no criminal check has been done and basically we 're taking the risk - as we pay out of pocket (if we even can). its just not a solution for the pwd I know to hire a gray lister. you might try working for an elderly person whose kids have money!
I am a home health care aide. It's not a job you do for the money. Jobs like this don't get the funding even though they should and the people who need help the most have the least amount of money. That's the problem. Since I'm a mom with kids in school, what I make pays for some Walmart runs, school supplies and stuff. I couldn't live on it. I am surprised to hear that the other aide can't find work unless she's waiting to be paid more money. That I believe. Good luck to everyone. My heart goes out to you.
There's a big shortage of aides here too. Most try to get as much money out of me as they can and over time I can't afford it. I do without help then. I hear aides talk about making low wages but the truth is they work slow and leave early or come late so they're getting double or triple what it looks like an hour. Let's be honest here and tell the truth about how aides take advantage of the lack of supervision on these jobs.
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