It can be hard sometimes to look different. If you have an invisible disability, it can be hard because you feel that others do not understand what you're going through. Or maybe you are dealing with another life issue - something that makes you feel like you are unlike anyone else.
No matter what your situation, it's important to remember that we are all made in the image and likeness of God. Frankly, we're a lot more alike than we might want to admit, despite our differences!
I look at it this way: if we had to describe ourselves and chose variables such as age, gender, occupation, nationality, etc. I could fit myself in with a lot of people I had things in common with.
It's rather silly for me to be set apart simply because I happen to be a quadriplegic. That's just one aspect of who I am. It may be the most obvious thing to people who see me in my wheelchair - at first. Hopefully, over time, as they get to know me, other things about me become obvious to people .
I've learned after dealing with this for over a decade not to let myself get psyched out by "feeling different". I look for common ground with others. This has been a gift in and of itself because I've broadened my life interests.
I can try to help others feel more comfortable around my disability by being open to questions, using a sense of humor and showing a genuine interest in their lives and concerns. This has been a gift because I've grown as a person.
I can help others with disabilities or feelings of alienation by sharing my experiences with them. This has been a gift because I shed my own fears and, in the process, help others to accept themselves.
What really matters, in the end,is the person we become, not the way we physically look -certainly to God.
So I'd say that the gifts far outweigh anything else!
1 comment:
I don't have a disability but am going through some bad problems. I relate to what you are saying. I feel like I'm different and no one understands. Anyway this made me feel less alone.
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